No, I'm not talking about the overturning of Prop 8 (but I did do a victory dance last night). Not sure where I was when this was first reported in June, but I was very surprised (yet not) to learn that interracial marriage in the U.S. is at an all-time high! 14.6% of all new marriages in the U.S. in 2008 were between people of a different race or ethnicity. I find this very interesting in a country where in some parts I'm still referred to as "colored." Now anyone who knows me knows that I've ALWAYS been an equal opportunity dater. And I don't buy into the hype that there's a disproportionate amount of good eligible black men in the world. I know too many good ones. Now I will say that I've noticed a large increase in the number of brothas who are opting to date outside of the race. Love is blind, but 22% of black men who wed in '08 married outside their race. That's more than 1/5 versus the 9% of black women did the same. What's really good? Is there a reason for the "mass exodus" or is it simply that color lines are finally being erased?
I'm a Southern Belle addicted to life in the "big city." Having lived in Los Angeles, New York, Chicago & ATL, I've had my share of cosmopolitan living. My "urban addiction" led me down a destructive path of the 3 Ds: Devastation, Disaster & most importantly...DEBT!!! But it turned out to be the wake-up call I needed because I was forced to put a stop to my bad habits & adopt a more well-balanced, yet fabulous, lifestyle. The good life comes at a cost but you don't have to pay the full price! By no means do I have all of the answers, but I hope that my journey will inspire & prevent others from making the same missteps. This blog is a resource guide for learning how to live like royalty without sacrificing your overall well-being.
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